Better in Time

Today, I have been left alone.

Alone?

Nope. I still got myself, papa, mama and my friend. 

You choose this. 

You want this.

I let you have what you want. 

I will be better in time. 

what is your life plans?

Just bump into a topic with a friend just now.

We were talking about plans. Not just a simple plan but our life journey plans. 

From a kid to a teenage and now a working adult. 

What is the life plan that I want? 

Five years down the road, what will I become? 

Ten years? Twenty years? Thirty years? Until the day I leave this world?

Being a freshy, having a work now is pretty much fulfilling. 

Sometimes, there is a lot of unexpected things happening around. 

Lots of excitement, lots of uncertainty, lots of disappointment too.

Up and downs are there awaiting for me. 

Still, I believe this is my choice. I will not let it ruined by myself too. 

Nothing comes easily in life, if you want, you must work towards getting it. 

Money wont come to you in just a night. Success wont come to you in just few days. 

To be success, sacrifice is needed. 

Success = strong will + hard work + sacrifices + passion + smart working  + time and MOST important is "PLANS"

莫忘爱的初衷

好久没一个人毫无目的的逛街了。。

原本打算一个人去看电影，结果售票处大排长龙。

算啦。。。 不看戏了。。。

结果走去逛书店。

就让我看见了它- 吴若权的《莫忘爱的初衷》

在感情世界里，为什么两个人会在不同的世界相遇？

结识然后彼此掉进爱河里？

为什么当初选择了对方？至今又为了什么争吵？

这是一本好书，一看见它的那一刻，我已经爱上了它。

外面的伴侣， 当你们为了一些误会，意见分歧时，请停下来，想一想，当初为何爱上这个人？ 

记得，别忘了爱的初衷。

My new life as a working adult

I am no longer a student...

Just started my working life two months ago.

I love my present life, I love what I am doing now, I love my job and I love those I meet.

Of course, life is not always up in the sky, there will be storm and heavy rain too.

But because of these up and down, life is better and more meaningful.

Love life, love yourself and love what you have!

The Ups and Downs.

There is too many of ups and downs in life.

What you have expected, it might not turn out to be what you really want; what you have never expected, it comes to you without further notice.

When you were still a small kid, you will just keep wishing that you can grow up as fast as possible. But when you are now being a grown up, you start to regret why aren't you still a small, innocent and happy kid?
You always think you are who you are, but you become no on when something strikes you.
The only thing you want is find a place to hide yourself!

Looking at others complaining about how worse is their lives, how terrible is their day; you think to yourself :"Are you really having such a suck life?? Are you? ARE YOU?"
However, when come to you having all these set backs, you eventually know how it feels.

When you are having all the things moving as you wish, you feel happy; but in turn, you never look at the positive side of all the bad situations you are undergoing.
People is somehow just so negative at some point in their lives.
Always look at the bad side rather than the good one.

Ups and downs, there is just too many to await for. Throughout your lives, there will be infinity of ups and downs.
It is alright to have fallen down once a while, as long you get to get up as soon as you are ready.
Life is full of question marks, never ever can we predict what will happen in the next second.
The only thing you must learn is to be STRONG!
To be strong enough to accept all the good and bad, to be strong enough to be resilient and to be able to continue your life again.


So, just Be Strong!

"What is the meaning of life? To be happy and useful." - Tenzin Gyatso, 14th Dalai Lama

My last sem break with a surprise comeback for my parents... wahahaha

I was fully enjoying my very last semester break back in my hometown - MIRI. 

Almost one month staying with my family and friends, I felt so REFRESH! 

For sure, I wont talk much but will let the photos talk!

 

Two little monkeys of mine :D

 red bean ice mix :)

rojak 

i love the two little one with superb big sunglasses ^ ^

us, sitting at the bus stop while waiting for my elder nieces class dismiss :D

Cinema night out with my parents, we went to watch Nasi Lemak 2.0

Kite Festival in Bintulu - my second niece :)

mandy with me at old town :)

secondary school mates gathering after dont know how many years :)

with my lovely friend, hui kiong :)

annie and me :)

sing k at season with ex colleagues :)

satayssss at sajian warisan... i love mutton satay the most... yummy :)

 with my previously interned company's Hod, ms wati :)

my teacher--mdm tan :)

woot... jogging early in the morning before my departure back to kampar :)

my lovely grandma.... so cute of her if u notice her eyes!! :)

group photo before departing :)

I was really enjoying myself in Miri yet busy with my data collection from teachers.. but still, I have learned a lot, reflected a lot of insight within me. All i can say is it was such a great moment and experience :D

Good Life? Positive Psychology?

I am taking a real newly introduced course - Positive Psychology this semester.
It was introduced by Martin Seligman in year 2000.

Most of the time, when comes to psychology, we have a general idea that it is all about curing mental illness, negative emotions and obstacles in day-to-day life.

HOWEVER,

It is not just about the bad side of human BUT the GOOD one as well.

Through the introduction of this course, I get to know more in depth with WHAT IS POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY.

How to have a good life? What is a good life? Who am I and what is my strength? How to pursue my goals and live a happy life? How happy am I today? Am I really that happy like what I have said?

Positive... I got reflected a bit at the end of the day, somehow, we can just be so peaceful, so calm by accepting what is coming to us.

This afternoon, I was having my first-ever tutorial class with only ME and the tutor. Cant believe I will have this kind of experience for being the one and only student in that particular tutorial.

I can say that it was really a good and maybe I shall say it is the best tutorial I have had. I get to reflect a lots of my thoughts, disclose a lots not like other times.

After the class, I was walking all alone in such a beautiful yet peaceful surroundings.

Life can be just so simple yet contented!

What more to say a GOOD Life??

To have a good life, it is an ongoing process, no destination towards the end.

A beautiful quote of the day "Study Positive Psychology not for the sack of passing the exam but to relate it to your life", by a nice tutor!