那一旋间

爱情，是不是在那一旋间产生的？

两个不怎么认识的人，可以擦出爱的火花吗？

爱，又是什么？

是不是感觉对了，两个人就可以在一起？

真的不必去顾虑其它的东西？

喜欢了一个人，要怎样跟他说？

直接的说？还是看情况？

人生说长不长，短也不短。。。 我们是不是应该要争取机会呢？

说争取，生命里，什么最为重要？

这种问题，的确要好好想一下。。。

就是那一旋间， 感觉是对的。。。

Fried Soft Shell Crab

Went our for movie and dinner with a friend just now.

We ordered fried soft crab. This is my first time trying soft crab after I have known this creature for long time.

It tasted nice and yummy.

I wonder why this world is such amazing with such creature. Isn't it suppose to be hard for animal with shells? But this creature is just different!

Crab with soft shell. I love it.

It is just like human. We are different and unique. We choose what we want and we decide our own path. We are worth to be loved and cared!

"We, human being are unique like a soft shell crab"

只要活着，就可以很幸福。

在槟城的Straits Quay 拍的。

我对槟城情有独钟，也很喜欢那里的人，事，物。更喜欢Straits Quay 的夜景。

走在那宁静的夜光下，听着咖啡厅里传来的歌唱声，加上海浪拨打海堤的声音，简直像沉浸在世外桃源。

那一夜，一个人的我，依然觉得很幸福。因为，能有机会看见和体会到这美丽的一夜，我知道，活着还是可以很幸福的。

只要活着，就不该认为自己有多不幸。其实，我们比很多人幸福。

因为身体健全，所以很幸福。
因为有机会读书，所以很幸福。
因为有份正当的工作，所以很幸福。
因为能在父母的爱护下长大，所以很幸福。
因为能经历快乐与挫折，所以很幸福。
因为能让自己不停超越自己，所以很幸福。
因为拥有知心朋友及那些曾经伤害过你的人，所以很幸福。
因为活着，所以我知道，我可以很幸福。

无论遇到什么，我们都会不停地成长，从中学习，让自己更加坚强。只有把自己放在最没有安全感的地方，我们才能够学会如何突破， 把那没安全感的环境，变成自己的地盘。只有这样，我们才会更加成功。

所以说，“能够闭上眼睛睡觉，然后有机会打开眼睛看见隔天的太阳；知道自己依然活着，幸福，就掌握在我们的手里。”

我们要得到的幸福各有不同，我们追求的幸福定义，因人而异。但是，幸福的那一刻，我们都是会心一笑的。

“只要活着，就可以很幸福”　

偶然感慨地一篇。。。

        睡不着的一晚，我听着snsd's taeyeon 唱的歌曲。 才偶然发现，她的声音很舒服，听着她唱的歌曲， 会觉得很舒服，撩乱的心境也可以被平复。本来就很热爱韩剧，也很喜欢韩国的歌曲。最近刚看完张根梭和允儿演绎的"爱情雨"，里面的歌曲，我都很喜欢，演员们把故事演绎得很好。是一部很值得一看的爱情片！

        明天，妈妈就要回去美里了，她陪伴我也快三个星期了哦。很感激妈妈过来陪伴我，很感激家人们给与我的鼓励，支持及体谅。我知道，也许有人会觉得我很脆弱；至少，我知道，在我最需要人陪的时候，我的家人，他们没放弃我。知道妈妈很担心我，因为她不停地提醒我这个那个。我知道，我有时脾气有点坏，但是，妈妈没责骂我。 其实，她真的很体谅我，她还说些笑话逗我开心呢！还记得妈妈以前常常骂我，说我不做家务，一直躲在房间不动做么。可是，我们现在，可以很像朋友这样，乱开玩笑呢！哈哈。。(爱你哦，我的妈咪！！)

        家人，永远是最好的！再怎么念你，当你需要他们时，他们永远把家里的大门开着，等待着你。爸爸，是我从小到现在，最最最爱的人了。无论是以前，现在，还是以后，没人能够取代爸爸在我心中的地位。爸爸从来都不骂我，也不会干涩我的事。但是，当我遇到什么问题时，爸爸会说“不开心，就回来，爸爸真的很担心你！不过，你自己打算，要不要回来，最重要就是要开心的笑！” 所以人家说，女儿是爸爸上一世的情人，也许是对的哦！！（很爱你哦，我可爱的爸爸！！）

        不只是爸爸妈妈，在人生里，有兄弟姐妹的陪伴着一起长大，是最幸福不过了！很庆幸小的时候，有姐姐和弟弟更我作对，让我们不至于乏味的度过童年！虽然我们姐弟，从小吵吵闹闹的生活着，但是，长大了，我们虽不长联络，这并不代表我们感情不好！不管是谁有问题，我们都会倾听对方！感恩，因为我拥有他们！

       亲情，是应该被排在第一位的，记得曾经有个人，他告诉我，他会把家人放在第一位！我对他的想法很敬佩呢! 因为他，我知道家人很重要。因为他，我和妈妈的感情变得更好。因为他，我学到了很多。现在，就算没有他，我还是记得她说过的这句话，“不管什么，家人和事业，要被摆在第一位！要努力去做到最好！”

        过去的无法改变，现在的你可以尽量做到最好，未来的掌握在你手中。人是有感情的动物，回想过去，是难免的。无论是好是坏，就用好的一面去看，这样，生活至少变得愉快些！想着想着，自然而然就会习惯；但是，不可以太执着于过去，要不然，你不但不能前进，而且还跌得更深呢！

        “多爱自己，多爱身边值得你爱的人！”

Mama & Momo

My marimo - Mama (left) & Momo (right)

See Momo breathing? So lovely right? 

Sometimes, life can be just so simple yet contented with just a little happiness in life. 

See the tiny little bubbles surrounding momo?

They are breathing! They are alive!! (*sot*)

** Marimo, a type of moss balls living underneath the lake in northern region. Basically, they are a type of algae that can grow into large green balls bit by bit over the years. They are very easy to be taken care of as you just need to plant them with tap water. The water shall be changed every one or two weeks. Not a troublesome plant to be taken care for lazy people like me. 

Snapped few photos of Mama & Momo when I saw bubbles surrounding them. 

So nice to see them alive and stay greenish!

Love you so much, my mama & momo. 

Guess who is this showing such a naughty expression?

She is my naughty niece, Ranee.

Just now when I was browsing through the photos in my laptop and I found this cute little pie! So, just want to share something happy and cute here. :)

I curi-curi print screened this naughty expression of her last year when I was using webcam with mum.

Just realise how much fun she has brought to me in my life. She is just too adorable and cute!

Seeing her growing day by day from a little tiny baby girl to a cute yet plum toddlers until now - a 6 years old naughty yet undesirables kid!

Whenever talking to her over the phone, all the stress and tiredness will gone! She just has the power to calm you down by telling you something you can never expect a 6 year old cutie pie will say.

She always says, "yiyi, you must remember to drink lots of water ah, must brush your teeth and bath a lot, must be guai guai ah and so on!" (This is what we, adult should have said to kids!)

Haha... Of course, there is time where she will throw tantrum as well but even her angry expression is just so adorable that you cannot even get angry of her! XD

However, really thankful to have her in my life! I just love her so much!

Muackss... My zhu bi bi :)

Meaning of life

Currently reading "Tuesdays with Morrie" by Mitch Albom. 

I believe a lot of you have read this book. It is always not too late to get to know a real good book I can say. 

It is a story about the old lecturer who is facing his death positively with the young student who is going through his life trying to fulfil all the materialistic dreams and goals. They went through 14 classes on every Tuesday. The classes were not typical lesson but classes about life, love, money, culture, fear and anything got to do with ourselves and our lives.

The old man, Morrie had gone through such a meaningful and unique life in his way! Not bothering what others say, just doing what he thinks and feels is right to do.

I remember something he said, "When you have found the meaning in life, you are no longer bother about whether you have money, lots of properties; only those who have not found the meaning, will keep running towards the Goals, Dreams, Material Satisfaction throughout their lives." I believe this is true, a lot of us, we struggling throughout our lives trying to become richer, famous, and trying to gain more happiness. However, is this really what we want in life? Is being super rich help us find meaning in life? Is having big cars, big houses and being on top of everyone help us find meaning in life? I doubt so as this is very much into individual's perspective. One can be very happy and satisfy being a cleaner but one can never feel the happiness or sense of purpose although he is the top performer in the company. 

Nevertheless, the meaning in our lives are pretty much depending on what we want at the end of the day. Some looking for money, some for happiness, some for love, some for health, some for stable career, some for popularity and some do not know what they want throughout their lives.

Yes! Indeed, I am still searching for my meaning in life. Not only me, but I believe a lot of you are still hunting and wandering around looking for the real meaning in your life. 

It does not matter what you are looking for! 

It does not matter what you want to be for the next five, ten, twenty or thirty years!

It does not matter where you want to search for the meaning in your very own life!

It does not matter who you want to be with in the process of searching for meaning in life!

What it really matters is whether you have a purpose, a direction, a right path and right mindset in finding for the meaning!

Morrie's life lessons has gave me a lot of insights. 

Meaning in life is decided, planned, worked through and fulfilled by ourselves. Not Others! 

Maybe I cannot and I am still searching for the meaning of my life tomorrow, next months, one year later or even longer. However, with the faith and belief, with the love and passion, I will realise what I want in my life. So as you, you and you!

"Never too late to search for the meaning in your life as long you never give up half way in the process"