只有你，才能够让自己站起来。

O'briens 的咖啡

非常喜欢咖啡的我，好像可以和它谈恋爱了！！

刚才和朋友聊到感情，聊到了两个人从陌生人变成朋友，变成情人，最后却变回陌生人。

其实，两个人分开的原因有很多，但是，这是单方面的错吗？

我不相信，因为我认为，感情的经营是两个人的责任；感情的告别，也是应该由两个人去负责的。

不管是因为什么而分开，我们都应该学习站回起来。

走进爱情的世界，还有从哪里走出来，这些都是人生的一部分。

对，分开后，我们有朋友，有家人，他们会在我们的身边支持我们。但是，要记得，能够帮你站起来的，始终只有你自己而已！只有你，才可以决定你的生命，只有你，才可以帮你自己站起来。

不可否定，你虽然会很难过，也会很难熬过一个人的日子。尤其是早上张开眼睛时，发现你不再有另一半叫你起床。或者时，晚上要关上眼睛的那一刻，你发现没有了那熟悉的声音和你说晚安。这一切切，都会让你觉得快崩溃，快要不能呼吸。

但是，请务必相信，你是坚强的，你一定可以站起来的！

因为，人生是我们的，我们应该要好好创造一个美妙，独一无二的人生。只有你自己，才可以让自己康复！无论在哪一方面，都一样，我们就是自己最好的良药！

要相信，在不远处的未来，有一个他或她在等待着你！要相信，你是值得好好的活下去！

生命不是让我们浪费的，而是让我们去好好体会那岁月。

“信念，是让我们活下去的唯一。”

My Diary

My diary...

Isn't it look cute huh?? I bought it because it looks so cute with the two pincers :)

Writing diary was my daily routine few years back when I was still a secondary school kid! Then, I had stopped writing when I came to study in Utar. Now, once again, I continue with this habit. :)

I find it very useful not only for writing down craps of the day, something special that happened on that day but also a way to talk to myself at the end of the day.

Whatever that happen on this day, you will think of it once again before the clock ticks at 12am. What have you been doing for the whole day, who have you been interacting, anything good or bad that happen and so on. However, the most important thing is have you lived a great yet contented day?

What is great to you? What is contented then?

Current life, for me, simple yet peaceful. A lot of things to be learned and to be hands on too. Will work towards it. I believe, the day will come!

Not sure how others define a great and contented life. It is just very subjective depending on different individuals. For me, having a cup of coffee early in the morning, this is great! Get to listen to funny jokes by the radio DJ while working, this is great too! Have the chance to spend your own time listening to songs, watching news, chit chating with family and friends, this is contented!!

Also, I saw a post by an artist, Leng Yein  last night. She said "Smile more and be a happy lady; Make up and be a pretty lady; Listen more and be an elegant lady; Read more and be a talented lady; Think more and be a clever lady! We must improve ourselves for the sake of our own benefit but not for the sake of others."
Not just lady but gentlemen too, we shall live for ourselves!

"Never expect too much, you will see a better life; Love yourself, Put in effort for yourself to be a better person"

有口难言

很想说句，“有口难言啊”

感觉对了，觉得是不错的。。。

就是不知怎么的，好像就是无法前进。

机会好像很渺茫，距离好像很远，要怎样让它变近？

真的有点难。。。

My New One

Got myself a pair of new wedges! 

I have been looking for a pair of wedges for quite some times and at last, I got you! 

Muahahhahaa... XD "Very happy"

I always believe, wearing a pair of nice shoes, it can bring you to a nice and beautiful place too. 

Sometimes, we just have to love ourselves more because we have been working hard all this while since we know how to talk. Therefore, pampering oneself is very important. A lot of people forget how to love themselves when they have been spending ages to love others, make sure others are happy. What about ourselves? 

Start from now, think about yourself too. Love yourself more! XDD

"Love yourself more, then you will only learn how to love others"

Chilling with Beers

Went for an earlier birthday celebration with my friends just now at Souled Out, Sri Hart, Ampang.

I love the restaurant! very happening place where there were a lot of people dine in there. Besides, we can chill ourselves through the beers and music, songs and dance!

Superb nice and relaxing!

For dinner, we ordered foods and beers! The Guinness was mine! They chose Heineken and Strong Bow. I drink Guinness and I prefer Guinness over Heineken, Tiger or other beers.

Just love the taste of Guinness.

Most of my friends do not like Guinness. They say it tastes sucks! Haha...

What I can say is: different individual has different preferences not just in beers but in other perspective as well.

No matter how different we are, as friends, when we gather around, enjoying the moment together, it is just something so happy and to be grateful with.

Again, just want to wish my friend, Jinn Wei : Happy Birthday!!!!!!!! Hope you like the small bear bear cupcake!! <3 <3 <3

"Be grateful that you have the chance to have different preferences in life!"

A Choo....

Got this book "A Choo" written by Giddens - 九把刀...

He is very famous because of his talents. I admire his writing skills to be honest. I watched his movie "You are the apple of my eye" / "那些年，我们追的女孩". In fact, it was just a great life story, I believe a lot of us have gone through our teenage moments and we gone through funny things like these.

This is the first book by Giddens I bought, in the process of reading it.

The story is something like loving a girl since small and at the same time, there are characters who have supernatural power. The guy is trying his best to love the girl and ..... (Not finish reading yet)

I love reading books and I enjoy the moment I read books. I will read at anywhere, any time as long as I feel like reading. I read when I am in the car, bus, lrt, before I sleep or while I am walking!

In the process of reading, I learn from the authors, learn from their experience and their thoughts. Isn't it amazing?

Sometimes, life is just like "A Choo" - Sneezing.

After we sneeze, things can just be the same. However, it can be totally different too.
Maybe we meet at this moment but we never get to know each other better. Miracle does happen too, one day, we bump into each other again somewhere on earth and we get the chance to know each other!

Hahaxx... Life is just so unpredictable.  We never know what will happen later, who we will meet later. So, living in the present in the most important thing that we can do.

Choose what you want, do it with the one you want to do it with <3

"Living in the present, is the best thing a human can do!"

Smile when looking at the Memories

Just got myself  a new formal dress from Mango. It costed only RM 99 :)

I have been looking for a formal dress for a long time. At last, I got what I want. "happying ^ ^"

I am going for a new job, a new life, of course, with a new attire! 

Looking forward for the new day to come into my life! 

A friend messaged me just now, he said he got inspired by my blog. I was like, "Wow... Really? Am I really that powerful till I can inspire people???" 

Honestly, I enjoy writing! Writing anything as long as its writing! 

I enjoy writing crap, writing story, writing my thoughts, writing anything that I want to write. 

Not only writing, I enjoy taking photo and drawing too. 

For me, writing, photo taking and drawing; all these three things are a way for us to capture a special moment in our lives so that it will become a sweet memory later when we grow old. Looking back at the writings, photos and drawings, here comes the smile on our face!

We smile when we realise how silly were we when we were young!

We smile when we know that we had gone through such sweet and bitter moment in some part of our lives!

We smile when we recall that we used to be with someone special or we missed out someone special in the past!

We smile when we get to read through all the important and special moments we have had when we were in the process of growing old!

We smile when we actually have the chance to look back, read back, recall back what we had done in the past in order to create such a great memories. 

"We live just once, so, be the owner of your life and create a great story so that when you grow old, you still can smile happily during the process of enjoying the past memories"