You, your owner

~ Raining heavily ~

Took this photo while I was waiting for my bus driver to come after my combat class. It was raining heavily just now, heavy rain plus strong wind. 

Finish class at 7:30pm, then I walked to the bus stop to wait for my bus driver! 

Half way listening to my KPop songs, it rained! ==

I was like, "Fine! It rains again and I am gonna go home wet!"

Ok la... At the end, only my legs and my shoes became wet. hahaxxx...

But hor, eventhough it was raining heavily. I noticed some drivers that were not so considerate while driving. They drove past me and some others so fast and at the end, the super dirty water was splashed to us! Luckily still, I did not get dirty because of that. People people, you all should be more considerate what. Sometimes, please think of others just like how you want others to think about you. 

So, ignoring the heavy rain, I continue to listen to my songs while still waiting for my bus driver to come. 

Life like this will go on and on. Everyday, I go to work. Not just work but to learn and interact with lovely people. Then, most exciting part is after work, I am so motivated to join classes like Hot Yoga, Body Bump, Bollywood Dance, Body Combat and maybe some other classes in near future. Really enjoy having daily schedule like this. All these are very fulfilling for me. 

Being single is not lonely! You can have so much of fun in life that lightens up your day!

Working is not just working! You can gain more than what you do when you bring your heart to work! 

Being independent is not as simple as it is! Some will never learn how to be independent but some can truly understand and apply the meaning of independent in his or her life!

Living a life is not just an obligation! You can choose to either live a normal life or to live a great life!

We, human are living things that can think, act and feel. We do not just live to survive, we do not just live to produce the next generation. However, we live to create something meaningful not for others, but for ourselves. We live to create an awesome story for ourselves. 

"You are the owner of your life, you decide the path you want to go, you work towards your decision, you bare the consequences of your decision."

小鸟的人生历程 1

从前，有只小鸟，不知道什么是爱，也没谈过恋爱。

有一天，她飞着飞着，不知不觉中，飞到了一个奇妙的地方。

小鸟对于四周很陌生，她觉得害怕，觉得无助。可是，这个地方很奇妙，有很多奇奇怪怪的东西，吸引了她。在好奇心的驱使下，她决定留在这里，继续寻找探索这个心地方。

“这里有那么多不同的鸟儿，还有好多我从来都没见过的新玩意呢!” 鸟儿心想着。

会不会在这里找到答案？小鸟越想越兴奋，很快的，她就开始了在这片心土地的生活历程。

由于好奇心很强烈，加上有颗善良的心；很快的，小鸟结交了很多朋友，生活变得多姿多彩！

当然，她心中的问题，永远还是浮现在她的脑海里。“爱是什么？它是什么滋味的？”

时间过了好久，有天，来了一只外貌非常华丽的孔雀。孔雀被外貌平凡却非常独特的小鸟给吸引了。很快的，两只鸟变堕入了爱河。

这时的小鸟，终于尝到了什么是爱。

“原来爱就像天气一样，变化无常。可是，却是那么的令人陶醉在其中。”

两只鸟互相依偎，日子一天一天过去，他们互相维持，包容；生活非常甜蜜。

小鸟很庆幸，她说：“我终于知道什么是爱了！”



“爱，就是互相坦诚，信任，包容，尊重及互相成长，扶持，创造美好的回忆”



持续。。。

玫瑰花茶

~ 玫瑰花茶 ~

慢慢品尝一壶淡淡的玫瑰花茶，它那淡淡的香味，不会太浓郁，蛮好喝的。。。

张小娴说到，“即使朋友很多，也会有孤单的感觉。人要懂得独处，耐得住寂寞，才会拥有智慧。”

我们到达这世界，来来去去，兜兜转转，遇到的人数不清；朋友可以很多，真正懂得你的人，几个就够。朋友很多，生活多姿多彩，但是，我们更应该懂得享受独处的时候。 

一个人的时候，没有什么不好。 我们可以善于利用之时候，更了解，更懂得自己。

很多时候，很多人，找不到朋友陪伴时，会不知所措。因为他们突然之间，不动要做些什么，更不懂要怎样去消遣一个人的时候，只觉得时间过得特别的慢。

我们可以喜欢别人，可以为别人付出很多，可以为他们用上很多时间。那么，我们有否想过，我们有多喜欢自己？我们又为自己付出多少及`花了多少时间给自己？

偶尔，一个人的时候，其实有很多事情可以做。

比如一个人看书，一个人看电影，一个人去喝咖啡上网，一个人去逛街，一个人听歌，一个人做运动。

一个人可以做的事，是不是很多？而且一个人生活，可以是多么的多姿多彩！

我很享受一个人的时光，喜欢一边听歌发呆，喜欢一边喝咖啡看书。 

一个人生活，最终要懂得好好的疼爱自己。 爱自己，懂得珍惜自己，生活会更美好！

“多看看自己，多疼爱自己；懂得独处，更加懂得生活”

Chocolate Brownies with Vanilla Ice-cream

~ Chocolate Brownies with Vanilla Ice-Cream at Full House, Sunway Giza ~

I love to eat. I enjoy eating cakes and biscuits with the accompany of coffee. 

Brownies is a dessert that I pretty enjoy and love to have for a sinful tea break. 

I tried the brownies from Delicious, Mid Valley before. Today went to try the brownies in Full House. Both the brownies in Delicious and Full House tasted nice. (Worth to try out!) 

Having a bite of the warm brownies with the add on of the vanilla ice-cream. The combination is just so superb. Love it to the max!

Having such a yummy and pretty looking brownies for a tiring day, isn't it something great?

"A wonderful life is like a piece of sweet brownies"

夜景，它的美。。。

~ 从我家露台所见到的夜景 ~

搬进来新的家大概有两个月了吧。 从来没好好看过外面的风景。最近的一天，我很偶然的发现了这美丽的一幕。晚上，一眼望去，看见那些闪闪发亮的灯，像很多萤火虫那样，一闪一闪的， 很漂亮。傻傻的，静静的，望着它，心境很平静，很温暖。

时间过得很快，悄悄的来到了十月的一半。生活的变化无穷，该遇到的，不该遇到的，我都遇到了。起起伏伏，爬上高峰，掉进谷底，快乐感动，伤心心碎；这些事情的发生， 似乎是人生必经之路。

有位朋友说，“十月是个充满悲伤的一个月。”

我好奇了，问个为什么？

他说，“身边的人都遭遇很多不开心的事。”

想一想，好像也很对，身边的朋友，似乎都在为了某些事而烦恼。有的和另一半吵架，有的被甩了，有的和朋友闹得有点僵， 有的生病了。。。 

十月真的那么邪？？？ 不可能，生活依然继续，我们依然每天起身，努力为生命努力。问题的存在，不停地在生命的每分每秒出现，这就是我们必须去经历的一刻。就好像白天会离去，夜晚会来临；但是，白天依然会再来，夜晚也不可能永远停留在那。

学习如何生活，学习如何独立，学习如何活得不后悔，学习如何活得精彩；这才是最重要的关键吧。生命说短不短，说长也不长； 今天不知明天事，现在拥有不代表永远不变。因为，世上唯一不变的， 就是不停的变。

夜景，它很美，可是，它也有被白天所代替的一刻。

人生，再美好的是，也有来到尾声的一刻；再好的人，也有离你而去的一天。 所以，再难熬的遭遇，也会有雨过天晴的一刻；遇到了再坏的感情，也会有跌到了再爬起来的时候。当我们沉静在那幸福的日子里，有谁会预知噩梦的发生？所以，噩梦来临时，也许，我们会很错愣，会觉得熬不过去。但是，只要一直抱着那坚定的信念，相信一定能在看见美丽的夜景；有一天，我们一定会到达那里。

跌跌撞撞后，我们会更加小心走路，会比以前更谨慎，会把眼睛开得更大！因为，当我们错过了今天的夜景，我们会更加珍惜即将来领的夜景。

受过伤，要伤痕完全痊愈；似乎不太可能，因为，伤疤永远留在那。它无时无刻的提醒你，因为，它不要你再次受伤，它要你更加努力活着，要你更珍惜生命。

“在美的夜景，会有被取代的一刻；在美好的事，会有结束的一刻； 所以，在糟糕的遭遇，也会有被取代的一天”

感情的外套。。。

~ 在Pacific Coffee 点的咖啡乳酪蛋糕 ~

今天陪伴朋友去寻找他想要的外套。找了整天，并没找到适合的外套。

不过，和朋友见面，除了寻找我们需要的东西，我们最爱做的事就是喝一杯凉茶。他爱喝王老吉加热气粉；而我，都只喝无花茶。今天有点不一样，由于太过 的热气，我选择了难喝的王老吉。

除了凉茶，我们爱做的另一件事就是，逛街，逛书店，再喝杯咖啡，吃片蛋糕。

当然，不只这样，我们最爱乱哈拉一场。聊一下工作，在聊一下家人朋友，还会聊聊对生命的看法。 

我们今天偶然说到，感情！

我说，“人的感情，就像是我们在选择外套时，努力的在寻找一件适合自己的外套 。”

为什么这么说？

在我们生命里停留的人，来来去去，数个不清。

一位朋友告诉我，他发现青瓜爱上南瓜，南瓜却爱上黄瓜；而黄瓜又眷恋着丝瓜。怎么办？大家是不是在挖个洞，让自己掉进洞里？结果，喜欢却得不到，反而偏体鳞伤。

每个人，从来到这个世界的那一刻，都不停地在摸索；我们都在找寻生命里，适合我们的外套。有时候，看见一件自认为适合自己的外套；所以，我们努力的去试穿上它， 希望它挂在我们的身上，是独一无二的。也许，穿上去的那一刻，我们爱上了它，就不顾一切地把它给买了下来。接下来的日子，我们都很兴奋的向大家炫耀我们的外套。可是，时间久了，我们变了，外套旧了，变得松松垮垮了；这时候，才发现着外套其实从开始并不适合我们。只是，当朋友告诉我们那外套不适合我们的时候，我们都没听在心里。

然而，有的时候，在寻找适合的外套时，我们会不停的观察，慢慢地寻找那件真正属于我们的外套。看见一件外套，还不错，过去看看，才发现不太适合。 不适合的理由可以有很多，也许是颜色不对，或是没有队的尺寸，又或许是布质不合心意， 但也有很大的可能是我们不配穿那件外套。发现不适合，难道还要勉强自己去接受？ 还是应该再多花些时间和精神，去寻找更好的？

曾经穿过不适合自己的外套，那种感觉，一点也不好受。也许，开始的那刻，它让我很有安全感，让我完全的相信它会陪伴我度过无数的风风雨雨。然而，到了最后，当初认为美丽无比的外套，却让自己觉得更加辛苦；不只这样，我还让外套的岁月， 浪费在不适合它的主人身上。

生命里，除了感情，除了寻找适合自己的外套，真的没有别的事情可做？

生命的外套，不是一秒，一分钟，或是一天可以找到的。

这件外套不适合你，不是更应该去找一件适合自己的吗？

“寻找感情，就像是寻找一件适合自己的外套”

Thousand Layer Cake

~ Vanilla Thousand Layer Cake at Ochado ~

Went out chilling with friends few days back at Ochado. 

We were chit chatting about relationships and life halfway enjoying the thousand layer cake. 

The friend of mine got into a relationship sometimes back. Everything turns out quite well and guess it is the time for us to come to know about the partner of him. :)

We were friend since secondary schools, knowing each other until now. Time passes, things change, different people come and go in our lives. At the end of the day, we get the chance to catch up with one another. There was a period of time that we lost contact for years. Somehow, life is very wonderful that we still manage to meet up one day :)

I come across with friends that I have known for years. Then we disappear in each other lives for years until one day, we meet up again unexpectedly. Life can just be so amazing and interesting. 

Friendship is like a piece of thousand layer cake. The more you gone through bits and bits of your lives together, the more stronger relationship could be. Not just close friends, not just good friends but friends that you just known. 

Everyone that comes, stays and goes in your life. Not just friend, but could be someone that you are not so closed to, bring something for you in life. Good or bad, at least it is one part of our life chapter. We get to meet up, we get to know each other, we get to learn from each other and we get the chance to create a life story. Just like a thousand layer cake, made from one layer to another layer. :)

Today I get the chance to know you, this is something happy and special. I appreciate those who comes into my life. We have the chance to become friends, it is really a great and happy moment. We talk like never before, we share our bits of life together and we create our lives with the presence of each other. Isn't that a great thing to do in life?

"Life is like a song, friendship is like a piece of thousand layer cake"

Live like a glass of wine

~ My glass of red wine ~

I'm not alcoholic, I don't drink a lot of alcohol and I can't drink a lot too. 

One thing bad about me is I got allergy towards alcohol. Sometimes, I feel bad cause I cannot drink like how others chill with beers or liquor throughout the night. What I can do is to control the amount I drink or not to drink at all or just drink very less amount of alcohol. If not, I will become monkey for the next few days.*Sad*

Still, I enjoy drinking red wine. Drinking it sip by sip. The moment is just too superb! 

Life is like a glass of red wine. The older it gets, the wine tastes better. The older a person grows, the wiser he will be. 

A young man is just like a few years old wine, in terms of thoughts, actions and perspective; we are still fresh and lacking of experience. But, we don't just stop here, we continue to learn and survive.

An adult is like "n" years old wine, not so light yet not so thick for its taste. An adult can decide what he wants, his directions, his choices and his life. He has the responsibility for both himself and others around him. 

A wise man is like more than "n" years of wine, the taste stays with every sip you take. He is full of knowledge, experience, mature in thoughts and his is the owner of his life! He creates an amazing life story at the end of the day. 

The moment we were born, we are nothing. We always start everything from zero and slowly, we gain knowledge, learn from ourselves and others in order to enhance our life experience. No one in this world is perfect but we can strive to be almost perfect. 

I may not be the best in my every undertaking in life. As I am just an ordinary human. However, I will make sure I strive to be the nearly perfect one in my life. Live the presence, appreciate every single moment of the things I am doing and stay humble in every seconds in the presence of others. Everyday is a brand new day for me to learn, to grow and to become a better me for the next day.

"Live like a glass of red wine, stay sincere, humble and be real to myself and others"

真心最重要。。。

Haagen-Dazs Ice-Cream at Jogoya :)

雪糕很好吃，很棒。有山梅口味，绿茶口味，巧克力口味，芒果口味，咖啡口味及焦糖口味的。。。很棒很棒。。。

当雪糕在口中溶化的那一刻，简直难以形容。

每个人喜欢的口味都不同，有的喜欢绿茶， 有的喜欢芒果。

就如我们选择对象，朋友，工作，或嗜好。大家所喜欢的，中意的都不一样。

怎样才是喜欢？喜欢了又能怎样？下一步必须怎样走？

生命里永远都在做选择，我今天选择你，但是，我选择不告诉你，只要你开心，一切都值得。有些人，他们选择说出来，因为时间对了，他们希望对方知道他们的心意。对他们而言，结果是怎样并不重要，重要的是他们勇敢面对，勇敢的爱，勇敢地说出来。

当然，除了感情，生命还有很多东西需要我们去完成。　懂得分配好，当然最好不过了。

“活着，真心喜欢，真心祝福。。。”

Wedding :)

Mooncake from the wedding dinner 

Went to Sabah last week to attend my friends' wedding dinner. First time ever becoming the bridesmaid. Honestly, it was a great experience but very very tiring. Aside to that, get the chance to eat lots of nice seafood! (My favourite ^ ^)

Seeing the couple walking slowly into the dinner hall with the best wishes from everyone who attended the ceremony, the moment is just too sweet. Its easy to start a relationship, but hard to maintain it. What more to say about marriage?

Sincerely wish both of them a happy and lovely marriage life!