Monday, April 22, 2013

Keep trying?!


My lovely heart shape latte

I always love to drink coffee and I am starting to brew my own coffee.

The process of learning how to brew a nice cup of latte is fun and amazing. 

Life has been changing dramatically for the past one year, been through ups and downs, there are people come and go in the journey of my life; yet, I am still in strong belief that life is wonderful and awesome. 

I came across this quote "Whatever it is, things that happen in our lives; there is always a reason behind them."

True enough to say this. We might not know why we are having this situation now, but one day, we will realise that things happen for certain reasons.

Nothing starts easy, even when we were young, we have to learn hard and practice hard in order to excel in what we do. 

Same goes to our working life, our relationship and the process of fulfilling our dreams. 

Since I have started what I have chosen, I will just do my best to make it works. If one day, things do not turn up well, at least, I wont regret for what I have chosen to do.

Never know what will happen in the future, but at least I plan and work towards it. Never know who I will meet in life, but at least I appreciate who ever that bounce into me. 

I might not know what will happen next, at least, I am giving in my full attention to it. 

"Just keep trying, you will not lost anything at the end of the day"

Monday, April 8, 2013

"Switch"


If this way cannot make it, switch to another direction!

Scenario 1:

How will you feel if early in the morning, your car tyre punctured right before you want to drive to work? Angry thinking of why are you so unlucky? Frustrated as you are going to be late to work? Bet you will have all the negative emotions with you. So, at the end, you have a superb duper bad day!

What if you switch your thoughts? Thinking "Luckily, my car tyre punctured at home not in front of the traffic light!". Will you feel better by thinking like this? 

Scenario 2: 

A girl friend is waiting for the boy friend to come over. He told her he will be coming by 10 o'clock. However, time passed and he is not here yet. Here comes 11 o'clock, he is not here yet too. Girl friend waits patiently, then she starts to wonder why is he not here yet? All kind of thoughts pop up in her mind, she gets angry, frustrated and disappointed. At the end, they ended up quarrel.

What if the girl friend switches her thoughts? Thinking "Maybe he got caught up with certain things?" For sure she feels better and things can be so different after that.

There is always a choice in life, and we are making choices every day, every single second. 

In life, we have the choice to choose what we want to do, what we want to achieve and what we want to experience. Once you make the decision, be focus and do it. 

There is no right timing when you want to switch yourself, but you have to initiate it. 

"Wake up in the morning, we have the choice to choose to live a happy or a sad day; I choose to live happily, what about you?"